Would trusting other people make you more peaceful?

Superman starts by trusting Lois

In the most recent Superman movie, Man of Steel (2013), Superman first do not know if he can or should trust the humans and/or the aliens. Later on he realizes that his own people, the aliens, wants to dominate Earth and eradicate the humans to restore their “planet” Krypton. So Superman decides to try to be the bridge between both of these races since he is now an earthling and at the same time an alien. The aliens though refuses to share Earth with the humans and the trust in Supermans own race diminishes with their choice. Also at first the military power of USA is also unwilling to trust Superman and soon they realize that trusting Superman is easier than to fight him.

Superman - S stands for HOPE

Superman - S stands for HOPE

So what’s my point here? Well, trusting can either be easy and a choice or something that you have to earn from others. And in my point of view Superman had no reason to trust the humans, though he chooses to not only trust them but of course also to hope they would change and also to give them hope. And further more Superman just took the easy way of trusting instead of waiting for the humans to earn his trust.

That was trusting others, now over to trusting yourself. If you trust you, you never have to prove it, you never have to justify it and you never have to explain it to anyone. Would you be willing to have this peace? Trusting you is a peaceful place. Are you willing to be so different that you don’t have that doubt in you? How many people do you know that totally trust themselves?

Are you a truth (true) seeker? And if so, are you also receiving people that aggressively ask about what is true for you, or are you actually avoiding and resisting them like the plague? I.e. from my point of view you have 3 choices; You can either resist and react to people, you can align and agree with people OR you can just come from an interesting point of view people have their point of view. In the last example you neither align and agree nor are you resisting and reacting to them. That is you are not with them or against them, you are just neutral in regards to them.

What if to be able to be against someone or something you have to put energy into a point of view?  And in so doing you give the people energy that are either for or against the point of view you are holding on to.  Because if you did not have an energy that were opposed to their energy, would they sooner or later run out of steam?  In my point of view, YES.  So, is war and peace different?  Not really.  If someone forcefully go with and for a point of view for peace, they are probably 100% against war.  So, does fighting for peace really work?  I.e. does it work to go to war to create peace?  Yes, but only if you have NO POINT OF VIEW about it.  How many people do you know that fight for peace or fight to have their war for whatever reason actually have NO POINT OF VIEW about it?  So, if you really do not have a point of view about it do you really have to go to war for or against it?

Or to take this from a slightly different point of view…  Do you have children that are opposing your wishes?  And will they keep opposing you?  Probably.  What would happen if you stopped having a point of view about what they should or should not be or do?  Could this potentially create the peace you and your children are looking for?  (PS.  If you have no children, maybe you can just look at your relationship with your parents.)

And have you met these other true/truth seekers that you think are assholes? Who is really the asshole? Is it the person that wanna show you the truth or you that judge the other person to be an asshole? How much longer are you going to resist and react to these people that are actually willing to empower you A LOT MORE THAN YOU ARE EMPOWERING YOURSELF? Is NOW the time to change what is not working for you?

Of course when someone comes up to and just wanna give you THEIR truth most people will resist or react to this. There are other ways to act as a true seeker. A true seeker that have no point of view if other people knows what is true or not will not force their point of view on others. Such a true seeker will just ask questions that other people can and are willing to hear. I.e. if you ask a question that other people can hear they start to trust you. If you ask people a question that they are not willing to hear they start to distrust you. Which “way” do you know is the easier way? NEW TOOL! How do you know if they can hear what you can say? Start by asking yourself a question; Can he or she hear what I say without resisting/reacting or aligning/agreeing? Then wait for the awareness if they can or not.

Back to the original idea of this article. Would trusting other people make you more peaceful? Would trusting other people create more World Peace? Yes and no. No (choice 1a) if your trust looks like this: I trust my brother, he would never dishonor me, say something bad to me or in any way or form hurt me.
Yes (choice 1b) if your trust looks like this: I trust my brother to be capable of dishonoring me, say bad things to me and in worst case scenario hurt me emotionally or physically. NOTE… I wrote capable of. Can you honestly say that anyone that you trust/trusted do not judge you or stab you in the back?

Let me give you an example. I trusted my mother until maybe 7 years ago. It was at some time then I realized that she might not have my best interest at heart. She might have HER best interest at heart for ME. In other words, what SHE believes is right for me, not what I know is best for me.

This showed up the other day like this; She called me on the phone and started asking me if I had been on national TV naked? And I responded yes I have. And to make a long story short she made me wrong for this choice and stated that it is wrong to be naked in front of a public even if you get paid or not. Well what my mother resists to realize is that if she thinks it is bad or wrong to be naked in public then she is making nudity wrong for everyone including her own body. I.e. she is judging her body as well as mine being naked. What can she possibly benefit from this? Possibly that she would hate being wrong and thinks she has to be right. All of which comes from a judgmental place. “Does judgment create peace or conflict?” is my question to you. If no person had any point of view would it be wrong to be naked in public? No. Even if you and a majority of people have the point of view it is wrong, is it really wrong? Or is it just what is?

So in my interesting point of view my mother is stabbing me in my back with her judgments of what is wrong or what is not right. She not only judges me (and I can choose to be affected by this or not), but she is also chocked and devastated that her son is doing this. I.e. she first not only judges her own body she is also going into drama and trauma about it, that is judging the situation a second time. What would change this? What would work for you?

Gratitude / Allowance OR Judgment / Wrong / Not right?

Gratitude / Allowance OR Judgment / Wrong / Not right?

Did my mother empower me or dis-empower me in my choice? She totally invalidated my choice and did her best to give me her fixed point of view. In my point of view this is not empowering someone. As a parent or good friend, will you empower others by being in total allowance and asking empowering questions or dis-empower others by giving them your judgment and fixed point of view? My mother could have empowered me by asking questions like; Aha, so did this make you trust yourself more? What did you learn about yourself, did you get any awareness? How can you now use this to your advantage? But, you know what? Thanks to my mother this article was written. And I also got to look at this from another point of view. And I started to open up my potency to change my own judgments about sex, sexuality and sexualness. How does it get any better than this? What contribution to your life, living and reality can your family members be? It’s time to look at what people actually contribute to you, and not only what you think they are trying to stop you to be or do.

So in this case trusting my mother would be to know that she is capable of stabbing me in the back with her judgments, not necessarily a real dagger. So who do you really wanna trust? You or others? I am choosing to trust myself more and more. I am not fully there yet. I was choosing 1a previously and now I have realized that choosing 1b works so much better and easier for me. What would work for you? Do you know of any family fights where the sisters or brothers are totally shutting their siblings out of their dead mother or fathers heritage? If you know of any such fight, then my advice to you is really to consider if choice 1a will continue to work for you.

So what if peace comes from choice 1b and not 1a? What if world peace cannot be obtained as long as people judge each other? Would trusting other people really make you more peaceful? Am I right? Of course not. I am neither right nor wrong. I am just having my interesting point of view. Do you wanna live your life from interesting point of view or from fixed point of view? YOUR CHOICE. YOUR LIVING.

How do you feel after you have had sex?

For me it is always relaxing.  Do you know this kind of relaxation where you wanna fall asleep directly?  Well, what if this tiredness that some of you perceive is not really being tired, but just really really relaxed?  Your body is shaking and, what if you have misidentified and misapplied vibrantly alive as being tired?  Since you rarely go into being alive you think it is something else.  True or false?

Yes, I might be one of the fortunate.  I choose nice girls that will not challenge me into something I do not want.  Who do you choose?  Is it someone (somebody) that is nurturing for you and your body?  Or is it someone with lots of money?  Or someone with good looks and no sense of what is great for you and your body?  Did you know that some bodies will be more compatible with your body than others?  I am not talking about colors or sizes now, or even male or female bodies.  Have you ever met a man or a woman and even if they were not really nice, maybe even assholes, their bodies gave you a pleasant surprise?  It was not the sexual positions that made it.  It was not the looks of the person.  It was not even the attraction to their personal attitudes.  Their body was enjoying yours as much as your body was enjoying theirs.  Yes, I am not assuming that you are your body.  What do I mean by that?  Since I perceive that we can live lifetime after lifetime with different body types (i.e. bodies), then I do not claim that the body is me.  What if the body has its own points of view?

Can you even enjoy sex with an ugly person, a person of the wrong cultural background, a person with wrong size, a person without money, etc?  What would happen if you had no points of view about looks, cultural background, size or money?  Could you actually like and love having sex with a body (person) you do not even know?

NEW TOOL!!!  Here is an exercise for you that might give you chills on the back.  😉  Go out on the street or stay in a café, wherever.  Now take a look around and choose a body randomly.  Old or young, ugly or beautiful, fat or slim, take anyone, JUST DON’T judge the body (because of the person behind the body).  Did you see a young girl?  Well, now ask your body if that body (belonging to the young girl) would be fun and nurturing to play with?  Yes if you perceive a light sensation, no if you perceive a heavy.  Now choose another random body.  Maybe a “normal” male body 1-10 years older or younger than your body.  Continue this exercise till you have realized what kind of energy the body your body would like to play with has, or until you have realized that the looks, size, shape, or even sex does not matter for YOUR body.  It only matters for YOUR points of view.  True or false?  P.S.  did you find an “ugly” old male or female body that your body wanted to play with?  What if your points of view have everything to do with how much fun and caring your body can have?

Inner Yard

If you did not use your 5 senses, what do you perceive about this Inner Yard?

Here is a picture of an inner yard in Malmö, Sweden where I lived.  Can you even perceive if it looks nice, ugly, brown or peaceful?  Well, if you disregard your 5 senses and your judgments, what do you perceive?  It is a knowing, not something you can determine through analyzing, defining, mapping or similar.  When you look at another body, man, woman, boy or girl, can you perceive if this body would be fun and nurturing for you and your body?

Back to the question of what you feel after you have had sex.  If you have practiced the tool above, and maybe even spent time with that body you found, what sensations are you now willing to receive?  Is it more or less sexual?  Did you know that most females have sex to create relationships?  And that most males have relationships to get sex?  If you stepped out of that behavior what would be available for you?  Greater relationships, greater sex or both?

I would also like to look at the peace you do create in relationships.  When you promise your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend that you are not going to have sex with another person, does it create peace or aggravation?  I think it only creates a sense of false peace that leads to irritation and frustration.  Why?  Well, are you an unlimited or limited being?  I know that you think you are limited.  What do you sense is more true?  That you are actually capable of doing and being anything or that you can only do so much?  And how much sense of peace do you get when someone tells you that you can ONLY have sex with one person?  None, some or a lot?  So, what if peace is connected to ALL your points of view, including those around your choices around sex?  I.e. ESPECIALLY THOSE AROUND SEX.  Hehe, how many times have you actually felt frustrated as hell because you are not getting the “sex” you and your body really are longing for?  What energy, space and consciousness can you and your body be, know, receive and perceive to be, do, have, create and generate the sex you would like to be and have?

Why we do not have world peace

Peace on earth has been spoken about since the creation of wars.  War was created based on the idea of getting either more power of land, resources, people, just for fun or all of them.  As soon as the idea of I do not have enough of this, the creation of the polarity of having enough and not having enough arose.  What would happen if you did not have any point of view at all?  Would you then have if you so desired?

Let’s look at your own situation for a while.  Are you joyful?  Truly joyful like a baby?  No, of course not, your answer might be.  Are you stressed out?  Are you depressed?  Are you angry?  Are you afraid of this and that?  If an answer to one of these 4 questions are yes then it is no wonder if you lack of peace.  Ok, so now imagine that you actually read this article, you that are seemingly interested in this, you lack peace.  And just imagine what are other people that are not interested in this actually lack of?  Do you get where I am going with this?  What if people that are not interested in world peace or inner peace actually are not interested in it because they love their trauma, drama, upset, intrigue and war?

Would we have peace if we somehow could observe ourselves?

Would we have peace if we somehow could observe ourselves?

My interesting point of view is that a big majority of people love their trauma, drama, upset and intrigue a lot more than joy and peace.  Am I delusional or am I actually looking at what is?  What do you know?  Do you know any person between ages 30 – 65 that are actually joyful and peaceful a majority of their time?  I know a few and they are all in Access Consciousness except for Sri Sri Ravi Shankar in Art of Living (i.e. I have not met you yet, wanna meet me?  I would love to meet you).

Is world peace existing according to me?  No, not as long as the defense of this reality exist.  Say what?  As long as you or your family, friends or colleagues love their trauma, drama, upset and intrigue more than the possibility and choosing peace and joy then you are defending this reality.  I.e. you are defending the limitation of the point of views of this reality and that world peace does not exist.

If I am not stepping up I am limiting you!

What does that really mean?  How can I limit you?  Ok, from my interesting point of view we are all living in oneness.  And when in oneness, and if I am willing to function from that, then I am able to perceive and receive everything you are aware of, know and be.  I have heard so many times that I cannot change other people, not even by force.  That is true.  Though, when I am being me I will change people that are willing to receive parts of what I be, just from their non-cognitive willingness, that they would even deny is true, afterwards the fact that they did change.

The non-cognitive willingness can actually be something they asked for earlier this year, earlier in their life, or even in a previous lifetime.  How about that?  Sounds exciting?  It does to me.  So, if I just live long enough and stop limiting myself by choices (or thoughts) like “I don’t know”, “I can’t do that”, “I don’t have the money” or “I can’t be a salesperson”, then all my requests will come true.

Fantasy angel

NEW TOOL!!!  Stop thinking /telling yourself things like “I don’t know”, “I can’t do that”, “I don’t have the money” or “I can’t be a salesperson”.  I.e. if your thoughts, feelings and emotions are creating your life/living, do you know if these “thoughts” are limiting yourself?  Would stopping yourself from expressing this create a lot more possibilities?  What if you could have all your thoughts, feelings and emotions just go away like that?  Or what if an angel could assist you with it?  Would your life become more fun, lighter and easier?

Can you recall a time when you actually asked for something to show up, and never stopped asking for it, even if it took 6 months, something that was so “important” for you that you never stopped asking for it, and it then actualized?  WOOOOWW… Maybe you were asking for a partner, or a new car, or a new job, or a new inspiration, and finally something greater than you could imagine showed up.  What if this is a reality you can have and be with everything?  Would your life/living be so much more exciting?

Back to oneness… so, if you and I and everything and everyone are interconnected then my awareness could be yours.  If I am not willing to be greater, and all of me, would that limit your awareness that is possible?  What if the “answer” is YES?  Would a population full of people willing to be totally conscious contain people that have much more awareness of everything, compared to a population that have only a few totally conscious people?  My assumption in this case is based on a possibility that awareness is limitless…

So, if I am unwilling to have world peace or inner peace, is that limiting your willingness to have world peace or inner peace too?  And is your unwillingness limiting my willingness?

Why questions cannot be answered!

In Gregg Braden’s latest book “Deep Truth” he begins to ask the question; Who are we?  And he concludes that we still have not answered this question despite over 5000 years of recorded history.  Do you know why that is?  My knowing tells me that it is because a question like that can be answered in infinite ways.  Just give it a thought or know for yourself, who are you?  What if a possible answer would be; I can be and do anything, everything and nothing at all?  Would it make more sense than telling myself, I am a mother, I am an alcoholic, I am god, I am a swimmer, etc etc?  Can you honestly say, I cannot be or do everything?

 

So, what if questions cannot really be answered?  They can be asked, and then when the time is right you will get the awareness of a possibility arising from the question.  What is an answer then?  What if an answer is a conclusion and can never be a possibility of something greater?  Does it make sense?  To me it does.  Every time I have found an answer I judged myself or the answer when someone posed a question showing a greater possibility.  Oh, by the way, coming to conclusion requires you to judge, compute or consider.  I.e. when you conclude you will never create peace.  Peace comes from question and possibility, not judgment.  What else is possible now with becoming peaceful, asking questions and getting more aware?

What would you like to choose from now on?  To always live in the question and make choices?  Or to always come to conclusion and never really live?

10,000 people truly in consciousness

What do you know about consciousness?  Do you even have a clue what it is?  Can you have peace without consciousness?  Probably not.  True peace will arise when you have no points of views, i.e. no thoughts, feelings or emotions.  Access Consciousness has a definition of consciousness and it is: Consciousness includes everything and judges nothing.  That is so great I had to underline it.  Ok, great, now I know what consciousness could be.  What about 10,000 people truly in consciousness?  What the heck is that?  Pardon my French.  If you have problems with my wonderful English, will you please read my previous article about Is peace real?

Did you know that the Transcendental Meditation movement conducted loads of experiments regarding lowering crime in the 1970s and 1980s?  They even constructed a formula for how many people involved that would be required for creating “peace”.  You can google Transcendental Meditation and Square root and find this information.  Do you also know how many people it is?  The square root of 1%.  WOOOOT?  You might think I have no idea what that is.  Well, I do, because I took a Master’s of Science at University.  =))  Ok, so assume 1 million people live in your town/city, call it what you like….  1% of 1 million people, how many is that?  That would be 10,000 people.  And then the square root of 10,000 is 100.  I.e. so, in a country the size of New Zeeland, with about 4 million people this would be: 1% of 4 million is 40,000.  And square root of 40,000 is 200.  Or how about Tokyo with almost 36 million people.  The answer is 600.  Do you see the pattern?

How many people does the world have?  About 7 billion people.  Ok, so let’s apply some math here.  1% of 7 billion is 70 million.  And square root of 70 million is 8368 people.  I.e. so in the city of Tokyo, as low as 600 people truly in consciousness could create Tokyo-peace.  And in the world, as low as 8368 people truly in consciousness would create world peace.  Wow… who would know?  I know.  And now you can know too, if you would like.  And Gary Douglas, the founder of Access Consciousness states: “1,000 people truly in consciousness will change the face of government.  And 10,000 people truly in consciousness will change the face of the world.”  Do 10,000 people truly in consciousness and changing the face of the world have a big similarity to world peace (i.e. no crime) and the formula from the TM-movement?

For me it said click, click, click immediately when I read the information from a TM-article or if it was Gregg Braden mentioning it.  Whatever, that was the day I knew I would assist in creating world peace.  Do you know you will create world peace?  Do you also know I am not 8368 people?  Haha, quite obvious?  I can create peace for me, AND a few people around me (i.e. 100 people).  But to create world peace we need you, and you, and you.  Are you this you we are looking for?  Or 10,000 people truly in consciousness?

What if world peace is achievable within 100 years?  Gary Douglas is keeping track of how many people that are actually truly in consciousness in this moment.  Last time I heard him mention a number it was over 900 people, and it seems to grow by about 200 people every year (or a lot more).  You can also get a number if you just ask the question.  “How many people are truly in consciousness in this moment?”  And what will it take for you to be truly in consciousness?

NEW TOOL!!!  Well, I seem to have a lot of answers even though I ask you to live in the question all the time.  I have an exercise that will bring you closer to be fully in consciousness.  How unusual?  Haha.  I am being silly now.  But you are still reading?  How did I get so lucky?  Are you still tempted to know what you can do?  Well, it is not a doing.  Doing will only take you back to what you already have learnt.  Choosing consciousness can of course be as simple as this: Perceive the you that you are when you are truly in consciousness.  Now bring that you here and now, and choose to be it.  That is how simple it can be.  Are you willing for it to be simple and easy?  Did you know choice can be THAT powerful? Well, what if choice is that powerful?  Are you willing to start choosing more of what you would like to see in the world? Everything that does not allow that will you please Destroy and Uncreate all of that?  Thank you!  And what generative energy, space and consciousness can you and your body be, know, receive and perceive to be truly in consciousness now and in the future?  Everything not allowing that will you please Destroy and Uncreate all of that?  Thank you again!!

Is peace becoming a reality for you?  Is now the time?  Will being you change the world?  Welcome to a new reality.  It is your choice.  “Choice creates awareness.  Awareness does not create choice.” Quote from Dr Dain Heer.

Is peace real?

Is peace real I ask you, and you probably ask you too? I continue by asking you, what do you know? To make it even more subtle, what is real really? Is feeling your body real? Is going to work real? Is dreaming real? From my point of view, I would say everything you make real is real and true for you.
Let’s say your friend believes in Unicorns and even talks with them. You might forever have considered that to be funny and what a nut-head he or she is. Ok, now consider the possibility that you believe in peace. What if your friend with the Unicorn considers you to be crazy for believing in peace? What is real now? You both each have a point of view that the other person does not believe in, or even would not like to believe in if it was true. What if you are both correct? What if both Unicorns and Peace are two realities that can exist side by side?

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Let me continue by asking you another question. Are you creating your life or is life just happening to you? Are you choosing to get up at 8am or 10am? Are you choosing to have breakfast at 8.15am or not at all? Are you choosing to stay home from work or are you taking your car to work? What if everything in your life is a choice? Even the good, the bad and the ugly. Woow, woow, woow, woow, are you crazy you might ask me? Would I be the creator of getting robbed 2.30am after I had a great time with my friends at the disco? Would I be the creator of having my house burn down? Would I be the creator of losing an arm or a leg? Ok, if you were robbed after being out late, now, ask a question to yourself. “Do you have a friend that has never gotten into any such problems?”

Let me give an example from my life. I am quite pure. Why? I have never smoked or taken any drugs (except for pain killers during a day or two). I did drink alcohol between the ages of 19 and 30. What do I mean by pure? Well, what if taking drugs, smoking or drinking a lot lowers your vibration and opens you up for unconsciousness and/or anti-consciousness? So, in other words, by pure I also mean that I am not attracting violence, drugs or anything with too low vibrations into my life. Is that possible to grasp? Is it at all possible that like attract like? For instance, I have never asked where I can find cocaine or smokes or similar. Therefore I also was never exposed for those things. I.e. I have never heard any friend talking about these things during the time I grew up and started working later on.

So, back to the question, “Do you have a friend that has never gotten into any such problems?”. What if this friend never thinks about “this problem/issue” that you think is a total possibility that can “happen” to you? Is it at all a possibility that you can get that where we put our attention we also create things?

Ok, here comes another example. My mother had a party about half a year ago. During the party they started to talk about things that can happen to them, my family that is. So, my mother was going on and on about thieves looming around in her village, and that it is very possible the thieves will come to her house. I said to her, “what if all your talking about this will attract this kind of action into your life?”. And she responded, “I do not believe in that, BUT I am not happy that the

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thieves have been to our neighbors, and I am afraid it will happen to us.” And I responded, “Well, if you do not change your point of view you can create this in your life.” And she responded again, “Nonsense, just by talking about it I will not create it.”. Guess what? A week later they go on a holiday to another country and leave their house unguarded, just locked but no people in it. About 10 days after this party and the discussion about thieves and these sad things happening in her community, the thieves came to her house and stole all her jewelry and some other stuff.

Was that a coincidence? Or did my mother create this? My bet, she did. Maybe this is a good time for you to ask yourself some questions. Do I create everything in my life? Even broken bones, sickness, a broken marriage or no money? Let me ask another question, how keen are you to live? What if sickness and death are created from the lack of willingness to live? Does it ring true for you? It took me a year after asking all these questions to finally KNOW it is true for me. I create everything in my life, including the good, the bad and the ugly. OK…. Hold on you might think. If I create everything in my life, why am I not creating more money, more fun, more sex or whatever I would like to have in my life?

Ok, have you heard of conflicting points of views? My mother said, nonsense, it will not happen to me. But her thoughts went to the possible incident/accident daily. What is stronger? The will for it to not occur, or the will for it to not occur? Ehhhh…. What do you mean? My mother’s attention was for it not to happen. She probably had a lot of other thoughts about creating dinner every night or going on this holiday. BUT, she also thought about the danger of leaving her house unguarded. Maybe she even thought, in worst case scenario, it will happen to us. So, just turn this around… Please tell me she did not create this? Or, are you still 100% sure that life happens to us, and that my mother did not create that? Well, YOUR CHOICE my friends. What if you from now on can start creating your life and living as you would like it? Start by asking a question, “What would my reality with ____ be like, look like and feel like?”. In the underlined part you can insert: money, sex, peace, relationships etc.

I cannot create your life. Only you can, if you would like to. It is a choice. So, over to our original question, is peace real? If my mother could create thieves coming stealing her stuff, can you create peace in your world, and in the long run world peace? Hell yes!! Ooops, I might have just lost all religious people. Ok, let me tell you why I am not erasing that sentence. Hell is not a judgment. Hell is just a word. I do not have a point of view about hell. Do you? If you have a point of view about hell, that point of view alone will take you out of peace. Make sense? No… ok, consider the previous article I wrote about Is fear distracting you? Please review it and read about getting rid of fear. Or even my first article about What is peace? In those articles I wrote that all thoughts, feelings or emotions will create everything but peace. Ok, let me explain.

Is bad a judgment? Yes? I will assume you say, yes of course, I do not like when people tell me my hair look bad. Is good a judgment? No you say? Well, I say yes it is. Why is good a judgment? Ok as an example, you put loads of energy into wanting everyone to think and say good things about you. That means you are resisting, i.e. you do not want people to say bad things about you. You might even react strongly when people say bad things about you. So either way, you either put energy into people should say good things about you, or you put lots of energy into people not saying bad things about you. In other words, you would align and agree with good, and resist and react to bad. So far you can follow me?

So, for good to exist there must be a counterpart; bad. Otherwise you would not put so much energy into both of them… Ok, is there a possibility of not judging then? Yes, there is. Just tell yourself, interesting point of view I have a point of view about _____ (i.e. the word hell). This is you choosing to be in total allowance of ____ (i.e. the word hell). When you choose to be in total allowance you are not aligning or agreeing nor resisting or reacting to the word hell. I.e. you do not spend any energy, because you have no point of view about it. And good and bad they are points of views, i.e. thoughts. And what did I write about thoughts, feelings and emotions??

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When I wrote hell, I was hoping that you would ask a question, and not go into resistance and reaction to this article or me or even hell. The people that cannot get what I write above they either have to take a session with me, or they are doomed to always judge. And if this is the case, then trying to get these people in peace will be almost impossible. Peace and consciousness is a choice, so is judgment and resistance. Judgment is the opposite of being conscious and having peace. Are you willing to keep judging by going into what is right or wrong about this reality or good or bad about this reality? Or, are you now willing to create a different reality where judgment is no longer part of your living, where allowance is the key?

Give peace a chance, give peace a change and give peace to yourself. By Destroying and Uncreating all points of views (i.e. thoughts, feelings and emotions) you will create inner peace. Is peace real? Yes, when you believe that. Yes, when you create that. Yes, when peace is part of your reality. What will you choose?

Is fear distracting you from being you?

Fear, sadness and anger are 3 of the most common ways to distract ourselves from being everything we can be in our daily living.  So, is fear distracting you from what you can choose every day?  And in what areas of your life/living do you perceive fear?  You will probably think, aha, interesting question, but what does he mean by perceiving the fear?  Does fear not belong to me?  Who does it belong to if it does not belong to me?

Before getting on with an example I would like to have a look at the word ‘fear’.  (reference: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/fear)

  1. a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid. Synonyms: foreboding, apprehension, consternation, dismay, dread, terror, fright, panic, horror, trepidation, qualm. Antonyms: courage, security, calm, intrepidity.
  2. a specific instance of or propensity for such a feeling: an abnormal fear of heights. Synonyms: phobia, aversion; bête noire, bogy, bogey, bugbear. Antonyms: liking, fondness, penchant, predilection.
  3. concern or anxiety; solicitude: a fear for someone’s safety.
  4. reverential awe, especially toward God: the fear of God. Synonyms: awe, respect, reverence, veneration.
  5. something that causes feelings of dread or apprehension; something a person is afraid of: Cancer is a common fear.
  6. anticipation of the possibility that something unpleasant will occur: Having grown up during the Great Depression, he had a constant fear of running out of money.

Special Note!!  Fear is an emotion according to the dictionary, and I know most of you knew that.  At the same time, the dictionary is stating that there is a tendency of creating a feeling in the body due to heights for instance.  Though, I believe the emotion comes before the feeling, nevertheless maybe we do not have to make a distinction of them.  It is either an emotion, a feeling or both.

Ok, now, please give me a moment of giving an example.  You were probably brought up the first few years by your parents?  I will assume it is a yes to that question, as most people had one or both of the parents around.  Let me now assume that your parents had at least one area of their lives where they did not have ease, whether it is money, relationships, sex, business or whatever.  My question is now, can you recall if you have a similar problem in any of these areas just like one or both of your parents?  Just for the sake of this exercise I will assume you will say, yes, or yes maybe.  So, what if this “problem” is the same as your parent/parents has?  Can you now see any connection, resemblance between yours and theirs?  So, now comes the shocking possibility.  What if this problem you have in mind actually IS the same problem as theirs and that it does not belong to you?  What if this problem originated from one or both of your parents and you were so perceptive of their problem that you now perceive it, and bought it as yours?

Wow, is that actually possible you might ask yourself?  What if all my “issues” does not belong to me?  WOOOOW, is that an eye opener?  Well, what if this is not only true but also a reality YOU can now choose?

So, let’s assume your parent/parents had a fear of not having enough money, or your parent/parents had a fear of being left alone, or your parent/parents had a fear of hurting someone else’s feelings, or your parent/parents had a fear of not getting enough clients in their business.  Now, does any bell ring when I write this?  Is this the same as you perceive in your life?  I would bet 50 dollars you have, not all of the examples, but at least one.  There are so many things we humans have in common, IF we just sit down and dare have an honest look at what is going on for us.

Ok, what more can I share about fear with you?  Well, have you ever walked into a room where you could perceive that almost everyone were sad, i.e. crying or something, even if you did not see their faces?  If it was not sadness, was it joy or something else?  Anyway, most of us have experienced this “event” where several people are sharing the same emotion.  How is that possible?  Well, if you have followed me all the way to this line, then can you just recall my story about your parent/parents?  Most of us have a capacity with a lot of things.  One of my capacities is to pull death out of people.  My dearest friend has the capacity to pull anger out of people.  What is yours?

So, if you could perceive your parent/parents “issues”, why can you not perceive the emotion of sadness in a group full of people during a funeral?  Well, guess what?  YOU CAN PERCEIVE EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE, ALL THE TIME!  Does it ring true or false?????  If you think it is bullshit, maybe you should consider reading someone else’s articles.  But if you still doubt, and it might be true, or you even know it is true, what can this create in your life?  If you can perceive everything and everyone, does the idea of oneness all of a sudden become more possible?  Let me help you answer that…. YES, OF COURSE.  In oneness you know, receive and perceive what everyone is doing or being all the time.  Do you get excited by this reality?  Someone else than you believe or know oneness is true?  How does it get any better than that?

Well, let’s get back to business here.  Now, you probably believe fear can come from one of your parents.  So, how can you change this (i.e. fear) or create a different reality?  “Ask and you shall receive”, this is a true quote from the bible.  By asking, “Who does this belong to?”, you will create a space in your universe for a change or a different possibility to be created.  NEW TOOL!!  What would happen if you used “Ask and you shall receive” for a longer period, i.e. 3 months?  And as you now know from this article it can belong to your parents, though it can also belong to anyone, so please do not come to any conclusions.  Some follow-up questions could be, “Does it belong to someone else?”, “Does it belong to me?” or “Does it belong to something else?”.  Whatever is perceived as or feels light is true, and whatever is perceived as or feels heavy is false.  If you perceive it (i.e. fear) belongs to someone or something else, then you can just – Return it to sender.  If you perceive it (i.e. fear) belongs to you, then you can just Destroy and Uncreate it and let it go.

NEW TOOL!!  For whatever thoughts, feelings or emotions that arise in your universe, ask this question, “Who does it belong to?”.  And then go through the follow-up steps to find out if you perceive it as true or false if it belongs to you, someone else or something else.  Unless you already know what is true for you.  Using this question “Who does it belong to?” in a period of 3 days, you will notice that nothing belongs to you, and you will have no thoughts, feelings or emotions on the third day.  How does it get any better than that?  But please DO NOT USE THIS TOOL!  It can seriously damage your life!  Erhmmm, sorry I could not help it.  I am kidding; please use this tool if you would like to create a greater life and living.

As I wrote in my previous article I mentioned that any feeling, thought or emotion would take you out of a peaceful state.  Will you continue to buy thoughts, feelings or emotions as yours?  Or will you actually start opening up space for more ease and joy to come into your life by asking these questions?  What if peace will be created by you sending away all your thoughts, feelings or emotions to the sender, including the good ones?  Is that a priority you could have as a reality in your life?

Good Luck!

What is Peace?

Well, first of all, according to dictionaries (reference: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/peace), what does the word mean?

  1. the normal, nonwarring condition of a nation, group of nations, or the world.
  2. ( often initial capital letter ) an agreement or treaty between warring or antagonistic nations, groups, etc., to end hostilities and abstain from further fighting or antagonism: the Peace of Ryswick.
  3. a state of mutual harmony between people or groups, especially in personal relations: Try to live in peace with your neighbors.
  4. the normal freedom from civil commotion and violence of a community; public order and security: He was arrested for being drunk and disturbing the peace.
  5. cessation of or freedom from any strife or dissension.
  6. freedom of the mind from annoyance, distraction, anxiety, an obsession, etc.; tranquillity; serenity.
  7. a state of tranquility or serenity: May he rest in peace.
  8. a state or condition conducive to, proceeding from, or characterized by tranquillity: the peace of a mountain resort.
  9. Silence, stillness

 

In the above list of definitions of peace number 6 (the bolded and underlined) is the most interesting to me.  When you are not perceiving any stress (body feels tension), hatreds (emotion), anxieties (thought or emotion), obsessions (thoughts or feelings) etc, i.e. thoughts, feelings or emotions, then you have entered into a peaceful state.  Or in other words (my words), the absence of thoughts, feelings or emotions can create a state of presence, joy, bliss and peace.

What is peace for you?