Would trusting other people make you more peaceful?

Superman starts by trusting Lois

In the most recent Superman movie, Man of Steel (2013), Superman first do not know if he can or should trust the humans and/or the aliens. Later on he realizes that his own people, the aliens, wants to dominate Earth and eradicate the humans to restore their “planet” Krypton. So Superman decides to try to be the bridge between both of these races since he is now an earthling and at the same time an alien. The aliens though refuses to share Earth with the humans and the trust in Supermans own race diminishes with their choice. Also at first the military power of USA is also unwilling to trust Superman and soon they realize that trusting Superman is easier than to fight him.

Superman - S stands for HOPE

Superman - S stands for HOPE

So what’s my point here? Well, trusting can either be easy and a choice or something that you have to earn from others. And in my point of view Superman had no reason to trust the humans, though he chooses to not only trust them but of course also to hope they would change and also to give them hope. And further more Superman just took the easy way of trusting instead of waiting for the humans to earn his trust.

That was trusting others, now over to trusting yourself. If you trust you, you never have to prove it, you never have to justify it and you never have to explain it to anyone. Would you be willing to have this peace? Trusting you is a peaceful place. Are you willing to be so different that you don’t have that doubt in you? How many people do you know that totally trust themselves?

Are you a truth (true) seeker? And if so, are you also receiving people that aggressively ask about what is true for you, or are you actually avoiding and resisting them like the plague? I.e. from my point of view you have 3 choices; You can either resist and react to people, you can align and agree with people OR you can just come from an interesting point of view people have their point of view. In the last example you neither align and agree nor are you resisting and reacting to them. That is you are not with them or against them, you are just neutral in regards to them.

What if to be able to be against someone or something you have to put energy into a point of view?  And in so doing you give the people energy that are either for or against the point of view you are holding on to.  Because if you did not have an energy that were opposed to their energy, would they sooner or later run out of steam?  In my point of view, YES.  So, is war and peace different?  Not really.  If someone forcefully go with and for a point of view for peace, they are probably 100% against war.  So, does fighting for peace really work?  I.e. does it work to go to war to create peace?  Yes, but only if you have NO POINT OF VIEW about it.  How many people do you know that fight for peace or fight to have their war for whatever reason actually have NO POINT OF VIEW about it?  So, if you really do not have a point of view about it do you really have to go to war for or against it?

Or to take this from a slightly different point of view…  Do you have children that are opposing your wishes?  And will they keep opposing you?  Probably.  What would happen if you stopped having a point of view about what they should or should not be or do?  Could this potentially create the peace you and your children are looking for?  (PS.  If you have no children, maybe you can just look at your relationship with your parents.)

And have you met these other true/truth seekers that you think are assholes? Who is really the asshole? Is it the person that wanna show you the truth or you that judge the other person to be an asshole? How much longer are you going to resist and react to these people that are actually willing to empower you A LOT MORE THAN YOU ARE EMPOWERING YOURSELF? Is NOW the time to change what is not working for you?

Of course when someone comes up to and just wanna give you THEIR truth most people will resist or react to this. There are other ways to act as a true seeker. A true seeker that have no point of view if other people knows what is true or not will not force their point of view on others. Such a true seeker will just ask questions that other people can and are willing to hear. I.e. if you ask a question that other people can hear they start to trust you. If you ask people a question that they are not willing to hear they start to distrust you. Which “way” do you know is the easier way? NEW TOOL! How do you know if they can hear what you can say? Start by asking yourself a question; Can he or she hear what I say without resisting/reacting or aligning/agreeing? Then wait for the awareness if they can or not.

Back to the original idea of this article. Would trusting other people make you more peaceful? Would trusting other people create more World Peace? Yes and no. No (choice 1a) if your trust looks like this: I trust my brother, he would never dishonor me, say something bad to me or in any way or form hurt me.
Yes (choice 1b) if your trust looks like this: I trust my brother to be capable of dishonoring me, say bad things to me and in worst case scenario hurt me emotionally or physically. NOTE… I wrote capable of. Can you honestly say that anyone that you trust/trusted do not judge you or stab you in the back?

Let me give you an example. I trusted my mother until maybe 7 years ago. It was at some time then I realized that she might not have my best interest at heart. She might have HER best interest at heart for ME. In other words, what SHE believes is right for me, not what I know is best for me.

This showed up the other day like this; She called me on the phone and started asking me if I had been on national TV naked? And I responded yes I have. And to make a long story short she made me wrong for this choice and stated that it is wrong to be naked in front of a public even if you get paid or not. Well what my mother resists to realize is that if she thinks it is bad or wrong to be naked in public then she is making nudity wrong for everyone including her own body. I.e. she is judging her body as well as mine being naked. What can she possibly benefit from this? Possibly that she would hate being wrong and thinks she has to be right. All of which comes from a judgmental place. “Does judgment create peace or conflict?” is my question to you. If no person had any point of view would it be wrong to be naked in public? No. Even if you and a majority of people have the point of view it is wrong, is it really wrong? Or is it just what is?

So in my interesting point of view my mother is stabbing me in my back with her judgments of what is wrong or what is not right. She not only judges me (and I can choose to be affected by this or not), but she is also chocked and devastated that her son is doing this. I.e. she first not only judges her own body she is also going into drama and trauma about it, that is judging the situation a second time. What would change this? What would work for you?

Gratitude / Allowance OR Judgment / Wrong / Not right?

Gratitude / Allowance OR Judgment / Wrong / Not right?

Did my mother empower me or dis-empower me in my choice? She totally invalidated my choice and did her best to give me her fixed point of view. In my point of view this is not empowering someone. As a parent or good friend, will you empower others by being in total allowance and asking empowering questions or dis-empower others by giving them your judgment and fixed point of view? My mother could have empowered me by asking questions like; Aha, so did this make you trust yourself more? What did you learn about yourself, did you get any awareness? How can you now use this to your advantage? But, you know what? Thanks to my mother this article was written. And I also got to look at this from another point of view. And I started to open up my potency to change my own judgments about sex, sexuality and sexualness. How does it get any better than this? What contribution to your life, living and reality can your family members be? It’s time to look at what people actually contribute to you, and not only what you think they are trying to stop you to be or do.

So in this case trusting my mother would be to know that she is capable of stabbing me in the back with her judgments, not necessarily a real dagger. So who do you really wanna trust? You or others? I am choosing to trust myself more and more. I am not fully there yet. I was choosing 1a previously and now I have realized that choosing 1b works so much better and easier for me. What would work for you? Do you know of any family fights where the sisters or brothers are totally shutting their siblings out of their dead mother or fathers heritage? If you know of any such fight, then my advice to you is really to consider if choice 1a will continue to work for you.

So what if peace comes from choice 1b and not 1a? What if world peace cannot be obtained as long as people judge each other? Would trusting other people really make you more peaceful? Am I right? Of course not. I am neither right nor wrong. I am just having my interesting point of view. Do you wanna live your life from interesting point of view or from fixed point of view? YOUR CHOICE. YOUR LIVING.

Is peace real?

Is peace real I ask you, and you probably ask you too? I continue by asking you, what do you know? To make it even more subtle, what is real really? Is feeling your body real? Is going to work real? Is dreaming real? From my point of view, I would say everything you make real is real and true for you.
Let’s say your friend believes in Unicorns and even talks with them. You might forever have considered that to be funny and what a nut-head he or she is. Ok, now consider the possibility that you believe in peace. What if your friend with the Unicorn considers you to be crazy for believing in peace? What is real now? You both each have a point of view that the other person does not believe in, or even would not like to believe in if it was true. What if you are both correct? What if both Unicorns and Peace are two realities that can exist side by side?

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Let me continue by asking you another question. Are you creating your life or is life just happening to you? Are you choosing to get up at 8am or 10am? Are you choosing to have breakfast at 8.15am or not at all? Are you choosing to stay home from work or are you taking your car to work? What if everything in your life is a choice? Even the good, the bad and the ugly. Woow, woow, woow, woow, are you crazy you might ask me? Would I be the creator of getting robbed 2.30am after I had a great time with my friends at the disco? Would I be the creator of having my house burn down? Would I be the creator of losing an arm or a leg? Ok, if you were robbed after being out late, now, ask a question to yourself. “Do you have a friend that has never gotten into any such problems?”

Let me give an example from my life. I am quite pure. Why? I have never smoked or taken any drugs (except for pain killers during a day or two). I did drink alcohol between the ages of 19 and 30. What do I mean by pure? Well, what if taking drugs, smoking or drinking a lot lowers your vibration and opens you up for unconsciousness and/or anti-consciousness? So, in other words, by pure I also mean that I am not attracting violence, drugs or anything with too low vibrations into my life. Is that possible to grasp? Is it at all possible that like attract like? For instance, I have never asked where I can find cocaine or smokes or similar. Therefore I also was never exposed for those things. I.e. I have never heard any friend talking about these things during the time I grew up and started working later on.

So, back to the question, “Do you have a friend that has never gotten into any such problems?”. What if this friend never thinks about “this problem/issue” that you think is a total possibility that can “happen” to you? Is it at all a possibility that you can get that where we put our attention we also create things?

Ok, here comes another example. My mother had a party about half a year ago. During the party they started to talk about things that can happen to them, my family that is. So, my mother was going on and on about thieves looming around in her village, and that it is very possible the thieves will come to her house. I said to her, “what if all your talking about this will attract this kind of action into your life?”. And she responded, “I do not believe in that, BUT I am not happy that the

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thieves have been to our neighbors, and I am afraid it will happen to us.” And I responded, “Well, if you do not change your point of view you can create this in your life.” And she responded again, “Nonsense, just by talking about it I will not create it.”. Guess what? A week later they go on a holiday to another country and leave their house unguarded, just locked but no people in it. About 10 days after this party and the discussion about thieves and these sad things happening in her community, the thieves came to her house and stole all her jewelry and some other stuff.

Was that a coincidence? Or did my mother create this? My bet, she did. Maybe this is a good time for you to ask yourself some questions. Do I create everything in my life? Even broken bones, sickness, a broken marriage or no money? Let me ask another question, how keen are you to live? What if sickness and death are created from the lack of willingness to live? Does it ring true for you? It took me a year after asking all these questions to finally KNOW it is true for me. I create everything in my life, including the good, the bad and the ugly. OK…. Hold on you might think. If I create everything in my life, why am I not creating more money, more fun, more sex or whatever I would like to have in my life?

Ok, have you heard of conflicting points of views? My mother said, nonsense, it will not happen to me. But her thoughts went to the possible incident/accident daily. What is stronger? The will for it to not occur, or the will for it to not occur? Ehhhh…. What do you mean? My mother’s attention was for it not to happen. She probably had a lot of other thoughts about creating dinner every night or going on this holiday. BUT, she also thought about the danger of leaving her house unguarded. Maybe she even thought, in worst case scenario, it will happen to us. So, just turn this around… Please tell me she did not create this? Or, are you still 100% sure that life happens to us, and that my mother did not create that? Well, YOUR CHOICE my friends. What if you from now on can start creating your life and living as you would like it? Start by asking a question, “What would my reality with ____ be like, look like and feel like?”. In the underlined part you can insert: money, sex, peace, relationships etc.

I cannot create your life. Only you can, if you would like to. It is a choice. So, over to our original question, is peace real? If my mother could create thieves coming stealing her stuff, can you create peace in your world, and in the long run world peace? Hell yes!! Ooops, I might have just lost all religious people. Ok, let me tell you why I am not erasing that sentence. Hell is not a judgment. Hell is just a word. I do not have a point of view about hell. Do you? If you have a point of view about hell, that point of view alone will take you out of peace. Make sense? No… ok, consider the previous article I wrote about Is fear distracting you? Please review it and read about getting rid of fear. Or even my first article about What is peace? In those articles I wrote that all thoughts, feelings or emotions will create everything but peace. Ok, let me explain.

Is bad a judgment? Yes? I will assume you say, yes of course, I do not like when people tell me my hair look bad. Is good a judgment? No you say? Well, I say yes it is. Why is good a judgment? Ok as an example, you put loads of energy into wanting everyone to think and say good things about you. That means you are resisting, i.e. you do not want people to say bad things about you. You might even react strongly when people say bad things about you. So either way, you either put energy into people should say good things about you, or you put lots of energy into people not saying bad things about you. In other words, you would align and agree with good, and resist and react to bad. So far you can follow me?

So, for good to exist there must be a counterpart; bad. Otherwise you would not put so much energy into both of them… Ok, is there a possibility of not judging then? Yes, there is. Just tell yourself, interesting point of view I have a point of view about _____ (i.e. the word hell). This is you choosing to be in total allowance of ____ (i.e. the word hell). When you choose to be in total allowance you are not aligning or agreeing nor resisting or reacting to the word hell. I.e. you do not spend any energy, because you have no point of view about it. And good and bad they are points of views, i.e. thoughts. And what did I write about thoughts, feelings and emotions??

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When I wrote hell, I was hoping that you would ask a question, and not go into resistance and reaction to this article or me or even hell. The people that cannot get what I write above they either have to take a session with me, or they are doomed to always judge. And if this is the case, then trying to get these people in peace will be almost impossible. Peace and consciousness is a choice, so is judgment and resistance. Judgment is the opposite of being conscious and having peace. Are you willing to keep judging by going into what is right or wrong about this reality or good or bad about this reality? Or, are you now willing to create a different reality where judgment is no longer part of your living, where allowance is the key?

Give peace a chance, give peace a change and give peace to yourself. By Destroying and Uncreating all points of views (i.e. thoughts, feelings and emotions) you will create inner peace. Is peace real? Yes, when you believe that. Yes, when you create that. Yes, when peace is part of your reality. What will you choose?